Demosthenes, a 4th century b.c.e. Greek Orator, advised that young men,
"...possess beauty in respect of person, self-discipline in respect of
soul, and manliness in respect of both...".
“…does not take petty risks, nor does he court danger, because there are few things that he values highly; but he takes great risks, and when he faces danger he is unsparing of his life, because to him there are some circumstances in which it is not worth living…He is bound to…speak and act straightforwardly…and he cannot bear to live in dependence upon somebody else…He does not nurse resentment…In troubles that are unavoidable or of minor importance he is the last person to complain or ask for help…his gait is measured, his voice deep, his speech unhurried.” (Aristotle, Nichomachean Ethics)
To the ancients, it was manliness that defeated the Persians at
But today, every single element of manliness that
Aristotle described is under attack. The 1960's ushered in the era
of the Feminists. Unlike intellectual trends, feminism became a cultural
trend. But not only was their view of womanliness skewed, their view of
manliness was also dangerously wrong. Sadly, this view has come to
dominate our culture, beit in the form of the metrosexual, the effeminate man,
or the man in touch with his feminine side. Instead of a man who is courageous
and confident in facing reality, men are now told that it is okay to be
soft and cowardly. Instead of a man who is moderate, men are now told to
indulge themselves in the luxuries of life; to spend huge sums on fashionable
clothes, stylish haircuts, and manicures. Instead of a man who is
magnanimous, men are now told to be pusillanimous; to apologize for their
greatness and expound upon their defects. Instead of a man who is
ambitious in his desire of honor, men are now told to seek the lowly and to be
meek. Instead of a man who is patient in response to his passions,
men are now told to cry uncontrollably, to let their emotions pour out. Instead
of a man who is truthful, men are now told that white lies are okay, and that
it is better to flatter than to "offend". Instead of a man who
is righteously indignant, men are now told to turn the other cheek; to forgive
and forget; to be compassionate to our worst enemies. And instead of a
man who is just, men are now told to trade favors, to barter for social
acceptance, to achieve by means of social connections, to be tolerant of all
opinions, and to love thy neighbor as thyself.
What are the consequences of the destruction of manliness? The
bird flu has not even killed 60 people in the entire world (or 0.00000001% of
the world's population). But we are bombarded with cries of fear and
panic, told to stay away from chickens and other birds, to keep our children
out of the parks where birds are, and prepare for the worst pandemic the world
has ever seen (remember, it's wrong to be confident in the face of reality). 50
years ago, Americans were fit and trim. But now, obesity is sky-rocketing
and quickly becoming the greatest health risk in
"Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where’s the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn’t there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need
I need a hero
I'm holding out for at hero 'till the end of the night
He's gotta be strong
And he's gotta be fast
And he's gotta be fresh from the fight
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero 'till the morning light
He’s gotta be sure
And it’s gotta be soon
And he’s gotta be larger than life." (bold mine)
Paula Cole asked:
"Where is my John Wayne
Where is my Prairie Son
Where is my happy ending
Where have all the cowboys gone
Where is my Marlboro man
Where is his shiny gun
Where is my lonely ranger
Where have all the cowboys gone?"
Both of these women, in a
nostalgic tone, are seeking the strong, proud, and confident man of the
past. Even Neo-Con Ann Coulter has voiced similar desires.
For centuries, philosophers have
attacked our ability to comprehend reality via reason. But now, the very
ability to exist in and deal with reality is under attack. The
loss of manliness has not come about because of a small philosophical
movement, generally detached from our culture. This loss has come because
the culture itself, your average American, has accepted as true the feminist’s
doctrines. From Hollywood to
-----Jason Roberts (Crossposted to the Egosphere)